Something to think about

 Something to think about......

Well, last night I had a chat with a friend over the phone......okay, it was a 2 hour long talk so it's no longer a chat.

What did we talk about? Everything and anything but mostly about how and what I really want and should do.

Oh....I want to do a lot of things!! And I think I can do a lot of things!! But he told me to face reality and stop trying to comfort myself. Which half of which is true and the other half I disagree with. But overall, it has a lot of truth in it and the other bits are just me being stubborn. Because I do not agree that age is a factor. I am still in my 30s and feel that way too.

Okay, what was it that he said then that I disagree with. He told me to face reality. Okay, age is something that we cannot run away from or change or hide. As much as we look younger, act younger, feel younger and everything younger but....the number doesn't change unfortunately.

In this real world, if you are over 40, when you send in your resume, they go in the bin. Most cases.

Some they look for experience so they want someone a little older but still under 40s. But most, they want young people. Because they think young people are energetic, willing to learn, has more room to improve and stay......and of course can pay peanuts because young and no experience.

Erm...wake up HR? Now a days, the younger people don't stay even long enough for the probation period. Some don't even last a day!! Well, I heard anyway.....some got scolded and left after the second day. So why are you still desperately recruiting the young when you know the generation is kind of overly protected by their parents, who probably are the hardworking staff that stayed in your company for the last 10 years min! And the government is also encouraging older people to be employed as they are the ones who are bringing home the bacon or feeding their kids at home who doesn't or can't last hard work or want a job they want!! Okay, enough ranting. Who feels the same?

Back to my friend....well, he said I should really think about what I can do without getting a job and because getting hired at this age is difficult and there is no guarantee either. Look at what happened during Covid. Many lost jobs and were back to square one trying to fight jobs with the 20 yr olds and getting pay cut to more then half or worse just taking home the bare minimum.

I've tried to do some online work, but you need to have guidance to do that and then on top of that you have to keep upgrading or paying for stuffs. Maybe I didn't look in the right places.

Other then that, part time jobs they are paying what I use to make when I was 16!!!! $10/hr or less!!!! More then 30 years ago!!!! Hellooooooo!!!!!

Shocker ay? Oh well that is reality......and I was told to accept it!! It's just so hard to swallow you know.....but yes...reality hurts.

Oh well....I am not going to go on about the 2 hour conversation we had.....but it's because we haven't met up for a long time and since we split up when companies moved we hardly met up. After we left the company worse. Maybe a phone call every few months. Initially I use to visit his mother's place when I was pregnant and even after my son was born. But they sold the house and there was no longer a meeting up place anymore. Because of certain reasons. That's why each phone call last for about 2 hrs. Trying to squeeze in all that happened in the last few months and trying to catch up!!! LOL......

So call your friends often. Those who have drifted or those you seldom call, call and catch up. They could bring you some light when you are down, cheer you on or just give you some better ideas maybe. CALL THEM!!!! :)